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The Sauce Returns 🎩✨🌹 at The Museum!

Sat Oct 17, 2026 6:00 PM - 11:30 PM The Museum of Art and History, 95060

The Sauce Returns 🎩✨🌹 at The Museum!

Sat Oct 17, 2026 6:00 PM - 11:30 PM The Museum of Art and History, 95060

✨ THE SAUCE TAKES OVER THE MAH ✨

For one extraordinary night, the Sauce is transforming all three floors of the Museum of Art and History into a Saucy affair with music, art, connection, interactive workshops, and pop-up events throughout the museum - including experiences tucked into unexpected corners and even inside exhibits!

Come wander, dance, meet someone new, learn about yourself, cuddle, follow your curiosity, and see what you discover.

This is The Sauce in a completely new setting: multi-level, modern, art-filled space where you can move between high-energy dancing, interactive experiences, intimate connection, and all the unique encounters that happen when a few hundred people come together with the intention to connect.

6:00 PM - NEWCOMER SOCIAL + COURTYARD WELCOME

New to the Sauce? Come at 6pm to our private courtyard! Come mingle before the museum opens and join our Newcomer Welcome with some facilitated ways to meet other new people and get acquainted.

7:00 PM - MUSEUM DOORS OPEN

Arrive, check in, explore our pop-up happy hour delights, get settled, snack up, and connect.

7:25 PM - DOORS CLOSE ⚠️ DUE TO THE NATURE OF THE EVENT, THERE IS NO LATE ARRIVAL

For safety and depth of connection, this is a closed-container event. Please leave enough time to park, walk, check-in at the door, and get yourself situation. 

7:30 PM - OPENING CIRCLE

We will all gather downstairs for the Opening Dance Party with Bez Stone and go over our rules and events for the evening. 

7:45 PM - LET THE PARTY BEGIN!

MUSIC + DANCING ALL NIGHT LONG

Our large downstairs lobby will be a dance floor, with DJ's playing throughout the night.

• Avira Pearl will start us off with upbeat, hot-AF, dance-club energy
• Miss Money 2 will end the night with a sexy downtempo closing set

POP-UP EXPERIENCES + WORKSHOPS

Happening the while night on all three floors of the museum, including inside and around exhibits. Expect a mix of structured hour-long workshops in our workshops space plus pop-up offerings:

  • The Social Hour: Speed Friending with Chris Taylor
  • The Embracing Society: Hugging as an Art Form with SunRay Bates
  • The Bodice Ripper: Beginner Strip Tease
  • PG-13 Dungeon Arts
All throughout the night: 
  • Meet new people and explore workshops designed to deepen your skills around connection, communication, intimacy, movement, touch, kink, and more.
  • Discover pop-up experiences tucked into unexpected corners of the museum - including inside exhibits! - creating all kinds of opportunities for connection and surprising encounters.
  • Relax and enjoy the elixir bar and lounge on the rooftop deck.
  • And much more!

Workshop details coming soon. 

11:00 PM - UPPER AREAS BEGIN CLOSING

We'll begin closing the upper areas while the music and connection continue downstairs so our strike crews can begin their work and we can keep the party going later!

11:30 PM - THE PARTY ENDS

Thank you for joining this unique evening and see you next time!

WHY DO WE COME TO THE SAUCE?

To connect with ourselves and each other in a space that is intentional, with permission to be daring, where consent is the culture, and everyone is there to be real.

To know ourselves more deeply. Every Sauce is an opportunity to learn skills that help us connect more consciously and to discover new ways of interacting with ourselves and other people.

To take healthy risks. There are many well-known spaces in life where we cruise along in our comfort zone. The Sauce is your monthly chance to step out of autopilot with other cool, conscious people who want the same thing.

Every month is a unique community party curated with special offerings by your Pleasure Captain, Bez Stone.

THE SAUCE IS A SEXY PARTY - NOT A SEX PARTY

This event is an intentional, pleasure-centered event that blends group activities like kink, intimacy, movement, sensual touch, social connection, and a sober, sexy dance party. It is NOT a play party. 

The boundaries of the Sauce are:

• No intoxication, drugs, or alcohol. This is a sober event.

• No touching genitals with hands, faces, or mouths, even through clothing. Consensual bumping and grinding is fine.

• Increase your consent practices with strangers: communicate explicitly, pay attention to body language, and don't assume familiarity or interest. If you sense disinterest, move on; if you're not interested, clearly end the interaction.

• Topless-optional event as per Santa Cruz city ordinances - an exposed chest doesn't indicate any level of consent for touch or interaction.

• Bottoms must stay on - bottoms of some kind must stay on at all times. Underwear and thongs are fine.

• Kinky spaces are PG-13 for playful exploration and must stay within the Sauce container.

  • This is an 18+ ONLY event

🙏🏼 WHO IS WELCOME?

All genders, sexual preferences, body types, ethnicities, ages (18+), and levels of experience are welcome.

Curious about the Sauce but the ticket price is a stretch? I offer a limited number of discounted Community Access tickets for people who might otherwise stay home because of cost. These tickets are for YOU - please use them! Register for one here! 📲 bit.ly/thesaucediscounts

The Sauce is a large party with multiple spaces for connection, exploration, dancing, and play. We aim to explore our edges with respect, clarity, and personal power.

We treat each other with mutual respect and curiosity, rather than make assumptions.

📸 PHOTO POLICY

Photos ONLY with the consent of everyone in the photo and clarity about how the photo will be used.

No mass photo or video taking, as you can't get consent from the whole crowd.

🎭 THIS MONTH'S DRESS-UP THEME: VICTORIAN

Every Sauce has a dress-up theme because it's FUN!

This month, since we're taking over a museum, let's get a little hoity-toity and fancy.

Think velvet, lace, corsets, pearls, vests, stockings, top hats, and anything that makes you feel like you've wandered into a particularly scandalous Victorian affair.

Elegant. Sexy. Dramatic. Proper. Improper.

Do people really dress up for the Sauce? YES! Some people even craft their own costumes just for us. Think Burning Man, lingerie, playful, subtle, elaborate, or completely over-the-top - the point is to feel good about yourself and have fun with it.

Dressing up is optional. BUT... how often do we get to take over a museum in downtown Santa Cruz and have a night like this? I think you should go for it.

www.thesauce.party

THE SAUCE IS HOSTED & CURATED BY BEZ STONE

Bez Stone, aka Your Pleasure Captain, is a sex and relationship coach, event producer, and community leader based in Santa Cruz. Equal parts MILF and mystic, she brings grounded erotic wisdom and playful irreverence to everything she creates.

Location

The Museum of Art and History, 95060